The psychological and emotional affects of smoking weed?

ok well he likes smoking pot and pot was part of his life before you came into it. you shouldnt expect him to change. look at it like this if you can, say instead of smoking pot your bf played football and he had since he was 16 and alot of his friends play also it would be unfair of you to suddenly try to put a stop to him play or say he cant play anywhere near you. now forget the football thing. if your bf had quit smoking pot because of you it would of created a void between him and his friends and you would be the one to blame it wasnt really that he chose pot over you its that he chose his friends over you and you cant blame some one for doing that cuz friends (big emphasize on the plural in friends) should always come first. i think if you like all other aspects of the guy you should get let him smoke pot around you