My Mom is Controlling My life... Help!!!?

ok here is what ur going to do, go grab a pen, and paper! now divide the paper.. ok on one side write down, everything ur feeling, on the other write down questions u wanna ask ur mom. now, i want u to ask her, and write down her reasons, then report back to me,,, lols ok so explain the no sex thing? did she have sex b4 marriage? if so what does she feel ruined her life from it? now i was 18 b4 i did, and im with the same man, 7 years and we r not married. by my choice, he has debt lol. u are 22 hun, u shouldnt let her voice in ur dateing life,, no parent wants their kids doing the wildthing, but its natural. if u wanna wait til ur married gr8, then wait, but stop letting her make ur choices, she led her life as she chose, and she will have her own regrets, as will u and everyone else, but atleast it is ur regrets ur chose and not the regret of letting someone choose 4 u. tab_fab_inc@yahoo.com