What happens if you cannot control and oversee what is yours?

Yes, it sounds like you might have a mild delusional disorder. However the problem with people in this predicament is that they often will not accept this diagnosis. Have a look at the information on "paranoid delusional disorder" and see how many of the boxes you can tick. The illness does not prevent afflicted persons from going about daily tasks, but it is usually rather obvious to others that there is someting wrong.