Mabey a bit too protective?

ive just turned 13, and for adges my mum and dad have always said that "m not even a ten yet" but now i am. and it seems to makeno diffrence! my mum wont let me shave my leg with a ravor,so i have to use cream or wax, but im not alloud to do the top half of my leg (thigh). its so embarring. i have emzma aswell so i get sooooo embarred by my legs! my mum doesnt listen to how i fell about it or anything! but never mind taht, im 13,and in summer, im not aloud out past 6 ... even though its bright and sunny!!! all my other friends are alloud to do most ordaniny things, but not me. all my firends can go underage clubbing, but not me. they sa im not old enough even though i am !!!!!! i dont understand, my mum is also sooooo embarrishing!!!! at my *** 1th she dressed up soooo embarrishly, even though i asked her - begged her not too! i just want to be like everyone else, but im not alloud to be, ijust want to hang out with my firends, but i cant most the time, i cant take it any more!!!!! i want to run away from time to time, but i cant do that!!!! i cant do that to myself and more imporantly to my family!!! i cant speak to my mum,, as it just ends up in an argument! i cant take this.. i dot know what to do, just help please!!!!!